This is a place for a hill, a house with a trail, and a pub with a garden. It does not have a zoo or a theme park on our list. Pick by the age of your children, because some of the best things here have a lower limit.
With younger children
Start in Banbury, where the day can be free. People's Park has an aviary and a play area, and Spiceball Country Park has another play area and woodland trails. Banbury Museum is free, with lifts to every floor. Our day out with children strings them together on foot, with a plan for rain.
Burton Dassett Hills is a big hill for children who need to run, and the council lists no café, so take a picnic. Sulgrave Manor has family trails and Tudor dressing up in its season, and carers and under-5s go free, though no pushchairs in the house.
With older children and teenagers
Compton Verney is the best choice near Banbury for teenagers, since entry is free up to 18. Silverstone Museum is built for families and racing fans, and the ticket lasts a year, but it is loud in places. Charlecote Park has deer to look for and a service courtyard. Stowe needs a whole day and two tickets. At Upton House, the terraces have steep drops and unguarded ponds, so hold on to little ones.
Chipping Norton Theatre is the winter treat, with a pantomime that is its longest-running and largest show, and relaxed performances too. In June, the free Banbury Show fills Spiceball.
Where to eat
Lock29 in Banbury is the easy answer when nobody can agree. The Hare and Hounds has a large beer garden the pub says suits small children, and the Red Lion at Long Compton has a play area and activity sheets. The Malthouse Kitchen and the Plough at Bodicote both have children's menus. The Castle at Edgehill has large gardens and a battlefield view.
Where to stay
Whately Hall is in the middle of Banbury, and booking sites list a family double room there. The Unicorn at Deddington has a family room with a double and a single bed over the Market Place. Whittlebury Park is the resort choice, where children aged 4 and under stay free. The Sun Inn has a room for a family of four. Soho Farmhouse has Teeny Barn for children, but only child members and children staying overnight can use it, and staying needs a Soho House or Soho Friends membership.
Who does not take children
Check first, because several places here have a limit. Banbury Cross Bed and Breakfast and Heythrop Park are adults only, camping at the Pig Place is for over-18s, and the Killingworth Castle takes no under-16s overnight. The tour at Hook Norton Brewery takes no under-12s. Alberto's has no room for pushchairs and no high chairs.